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Tonight we watched Lost in Translation, which is the first time I’ve seen it since it came out in theatres back in October 2003. Needless to say, it was just as good as it was the first time, and made me cry just as much as it did back then….that is to say, I swallowed hard rocks down my throat all through the ending, then took a shower with the intention of crying in privacy, but when the hot water hit I forgot I had come in there to cry and instead became so overwhelmed by the warmth of the water and the awareness that I had only seven minutes to enjoy it before the water heater pooped out that I forfeited the entire crying endeavor.

It’s just such a sad scene, you know? Where Bill Murray and Scarlett Johansson say goodbye in the streets of Tokyo one last time, and you know they’re both going back to unhappy marriages, and you can’t help them but you want to; specifically, you want them to help each other. But there’s no better ending — I mean, it’s realistic, ending like that –but it still makes you cry, you know what I mean?

You totally know what I mean.

KWID-nuhngk, (noun)
One who is curious to know everything that passes; one who knows or pretends to know all that is going on; a gossip; a busybody.

Oh my lord, it’s so freezing in Northern California. Since no one turns heat on here, or even knows where their furnaces are located, houses are even colder inside. Such is the case tonight. I’m huddled under a down comforter in the living room, wearing two shirts, one sweater and one sweatshirt. I might as well be back home. The only difference is that here, the sun is still strong enough to give you a sunburn during the day, and there’s no snow at night. But at least at home we have heat.

hockey1Today we drove up to San Jose for J.’s ice hockey game. Lots of women slamming other women into walls. It made me want to skate. Or at least pick up a stick and smack something 70 yards across a room.

I’m just about ready to go home now.

Beacause the cinematography was cool.
Because the plot was great.
Because it’s yet another brilliant coming-of-age movie, since, as C. stated so accurately, “they’re all so sexualy frustrated now and going through puberty.” And the love story subplots don’t end like proper fairy tales, or Hollywood films — they end realistically, with adolescent confusion and heartache.

Needless to say, I loooooved it.

So go see Harry Potter with your friend from college who you haven’t seen in a few years because she lives several thousand miles away, and who you know will be pregnant or already a mother the next time you do see her. (We’re all so adult now, it’s frightening.)

PS — I finally thought of an idea for a film, but due to intellectual copyright issues, I can’t state it here. MUAH-HA-HA!!!

konabranchi’ve ceased being tired long ago.
now it’s just me and the midnight airplanes over this hollow house.
while everyone’s out enjoying everyone else,
i’m clutching my solitude like a long lost brother, but that’s another story.
on the floor, calm silence, thin dust.
the black dog with me dreams for both of us.

– because it’s blasphemous. When you gamble on Thanksgiving instead of giving thanks, you lose. You lose twenty dollars, actually. To your friends’ downstairs neighbor’s visiting mother.

I’m glad they invited us for dinner, though. J. and I were passively resigned to finding Jamaican food, but the turkey and cranberry sauce and potatos and beans and pies downstairs were way better. There were two moms, two daughters, the two daughters’ husbands, us two neighbors, and seven dogs in the house. SEVEN. Yeah, I’m not even kidding. The evening would have been perfect had I just abstained from playing poker with everyone after the meal. Oh well, serves me right. I’m going to bet with rubber band booty from now on.

Cluck cluck, turkeys are we…

crepuscular krih-PUS-kyuh-luhr, (adj.):
1. Of, pertaining to, or resembling twilight; dim.
2. (Zoology) Appearing or active at twilight.

I think of the Word of the Days like horoscopes: each has something to portend. Crepuscular was yesterday’s word; today’s word is repast, a meal, which is appropriate for this day of thanks.

Berkeley is cold today — only 61 degrees. Beats the winter storms at home, though. I sat in Bernard Maybeck’s gorgeously designed church this morning as everyone around me stood up and talked about what they’re grateful for. I did the same, but silently.

Enjoy your pie today, good people, while I eat take-out Jamaican food in Alameda. California’s a weird place, and I do miss my family right now (despite the fact that there’s only three of us) but I’m happy to still be on vacation. Cheers.

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