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October, 2004 Monthly archive

I like how Nick writes about transitions, so instead of articulating the same sentiment in my own words, I will quote him:

> Moving this week. Things seem to be shifting a bit in this city, this burning old town. Sort of like how time slows when the ball is soaring towards your head.

I find it mildy hilarious that he and I no longer communicate via email or phone, but rather via static, subjective blog posts for other people to read. I like this global age in a lot of ways, I really do, but on many levels, it makes me sad. Is having a pseudo-connection with someone (i.e., via web communication), equal to or better than person-to-person communication? In terms of convenience, certainly. But I’m reaching a point now where I’d almost rather talk, write real letters or see the person rather than perpetuate a less sincere, less personal cyber relationship. You know what I mean?

Much how I feel about George, but that’s another story and I don’t feel like telling stories tonight.

In more mundane news, why is finding an affordable apartment proving to be the most difficult task I’ve ever undertaken? Seriously. The flats I’ve seen have been nice, but their inhabitants have been a new breed of weird. All of them. I was finally psyched to see a cheeeeeap, awesome-sounding setup near Kendall today, but I called and called and never got in touch with the chic who was supposed to meet me. She never called me, and she never emailed. Geeze!

However, it was a pretty glorious day, even with the overcast sky. It’s not like Manchester’s overcast; it’s lighter here, the humidity doesn’t permeate the skin. The clouds are thin here, and they glow a shy yellow. In Manch, the sky is rolling, always, with low blue-grey clouds that constantly threaten not to rain on you, but to beat you with their water. Boston is a gentler city, and I’m thankful for it.

Today I met up with my old conspirator Marcus Rhinelander to discuss, oh, the usual: his upcoming trip to Asia; business prospects and grant proposals; anthropology; interview techniques in fieldwork and videography; our varying career prospects; and possible collaborative business ventures we will or might or at some point contemplate beginning. It was nice seeing him. We met up first last night at MassArt’s Iron Pour Party (don’t ask), then this morning for the Red Sox parade, which he was photographing for pleasure, as opposed to business.

I feel like there’s gotta be some great reason why I know all these talented, creative, cultured, intelligent people. Why is it? What am I supposed to do with them? What are we supposed to do together? Throw your ideas my way, please. I’ll be here — in Ryan’s crowded room while he sings to prospective producers in other cities. Sheesh.

And their show tonight at the Paradise was the best show ever. EVER. EVER!!!!!
k's choice live

And I got a phone pic taken with Sarah and Gert!!!
me sarah gert

And Autumn, since she manages bands, knew someone on the tour so we all got invited to party with the band in Days Inn after the show. But the show ended at 2a and Autumn was tired, so she said no thanks…..ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

Ryan’s been very nice to let me crash at his place til I’m resituated. So nice, in fact, that he doesn’t deserve to have annoying little me mess around on his computer while he’s playing a gig and upload funny glamour shots from his recent PR photo shoot. Sorry man, I couldn’t resist! They’re glamour shots! I can hear those 16-yr-old girls squealing right now…

ry1 ry2
ryposter

But seriously, folks. For those of you in NYC, check him out at the Bowery Ballroom tomorrow night in Manhattan. Buy him a drink after the show and whisper: “Thanks for putting up the old woman while she’s homeless.” He’ll know what you mean.

I come home and look what happens: the Sox break the curse & win the series. I think this is definitely some kind of omen. Here are some photos I took with my new phone camera of the TV right before running into the streets of Davis Square to celebrate with Ryan and Brendan and Jason and a bunch of other guys. It’s been a good homecoming, lemme tell ya….

Go Sox!!! johnny is cute

Why am I always leaving behind a good thing? Sure, Manchester hasn’t been great to me, and I get aggressively sexually harassed every single day when I walk through the park, or walk anywhere, but I couldn’t possibly have cooler roommates.

They just made a nice goodbye dinner tonight, and last night we had our wild costume party. But first,

Peter spent all day, and I do mean ALL DAY, making ceviche, a typical Peruvian dish with raw whitefish marinated in lemon and salt for 4 hours, served with parsley and chilli and onions and sweet potatoes. Me, who’s never eaten any seafood, let alone RAW fish, ate this very well-presented ceviche and actually really liked it. Thanks, Peter.
peter making seviche

So we all decided to dress up as girls for the party. Here’s us helping Michel and Peter with makeup.
making up michel

And here’s the finished product.
peter and michel in drag michel in doorway

When I said “we all,” I didn’t mean to include Ben. We tease him about working at Burger King, so he teased us back:
burger ben! burger ben flying

Here’s us girls, looking annoyed at Michel for taking 200 photos in a row.
girls gone bored

Also, it occured to me I have never posted a photo of Declan, our seventh roommate, from Ireland. He had a football (soccer) match the next morning, so he abstained from drinking. This is us, being irish and sober but looking irish and inebriated.
me and declan being irish and sober together

Finally, my pal Cee came up to visit for the weekend from London and she brought along her boyfriend, Steve. Here’s them looking not-posed.
steve and cee

I can’t even begin to tell you how sad it is to leave…in 8 hours.
So I won’t.

I’ve rediscovered how deep those indy rock boys really are. In classic 8th-grade fashion, I’ve decided to name the world at large as the current theme song for the sitcom of my life.

And now that I think about it, “Float On” is right up there too, as is the entire first half of that album. Geeze, I’ve become so High Fidelity. How disturbingly male.

PS — sorry, I’ve disabled the “Comments” function due to some auto-programmed spam that keeps posting fortune cookie comments on this site. Why did spam ever come into existence? Why are people inspired to do mean things? I’ll never understand…

That’s right: us. Whaaaaaaaaat!

I am proud to announce I stayed up past 4am last night “watching” this game by following live-feed plays over the internet and listening to the streaming radio broadcast. Thank God for Johnny Damon, right? I fell asleep at the top of the eighth and woke up again at the bottom of the ninth, but there was barely any scoring in the second half anyway, as you all know.

WOOHOO! SOX!